Warning: Contains Sappy Material

Most people are surprised (and some mortified) to learn that February is my second favorite month*. February is often a greuling month. It is cold. It has been cold. Work is sparce. Winter is getting old. People are sick. The weather is often dreary. How, might you wonder with a twinge of bafflement and disgust, could February possibly be someone's second favorite month? I will tell you; the answer is twofold. First, it is the intensity of the end of winter that I love. I love that it has been winter for long enough that I am finally surrending to the fact of it being winter. My body has adjusted; I can handle the cold better. It is as if I have completely given myself to the winter and the dark side of the year. And (reason number two), it is simply a beautiful fact that just at the time I have completely given over to winter, the light begins to come back. The days are reaching their icy fingers a little longer into the evening, and twilight seems to extend well into dinner time. The extension of daylight imparts a fresher smell in the cold air, and the birds start singing their Songs of Early Spring. It is a month of promise.
I have also discovered this weekend that I may have realized a third reason to choose February as a second favorite month. What with Valentines Day and all, it is the perfect time of year to nuture and love the people in my life, including myself. It warms the heart and prepares it for spring, which, with all its sexiness and popularity, can be a rather brutal time for many of us with melancholic dispositions.
Saturday night was cold. Awful cold. Something deep and visceral told me to stay home and hunker down. However, something perhaps even deeper informed me to doll it up and venture out to the party I was invited to weeks ago, at which I had committed to setting up a Libation Station with my Portable Hospitality Kit. I threw on my leopard print body suit and a flowery apron and topped it off with a rabbit fur coat for fashion and warmth. I fired up the Subaru and made it to the big city in time to catch the last half of the music and dance performance art which was graciously shared by the host and hostess. (I do love a party when people perform!!!) I made my way to the stove and set up camp- tiny china cups, lovely embroidered fabric, blah blah blah. I whipped up some hot chocolate and set out the optional "works," and people lined up to be served. I loved it! Someone made a comment about how great it is to be nutured, and I noticed how warming it is also to nuture. I, in turn, was fed by the dance and song performances of many other party goers and by lovely platters of delicious foods set out by the hosts. When the libations were gone, it was time for me to go home, heart-warmed and not exhausted and very glad I had ventured out into the cold.
Sunday, Jenna and I made Valentines ALL DAY LONG. Literally. We only stopped to eat, use the bathroom, and do a few stretches and exercises. For dinner, we nourished our own hearts with heart beets, inspired by both Susie and Rachel's blog. We fell into deep, warm sleeps after a day of co-creating expressions of love. It was the perfect activity for another cold cold day.
To sum it up, the points of these little stories is to:
a) get you to consider making February your second favorite month
b) get you consider sharing the love this month; it doesn't have to be only romantic to warm the heart,
c) share this February Libation idea with you:

February Libation:

Ingredients:
1 quart half and half
1/2 to 1 quart good clean water
1 tub of Ghiradelli hot chocolate mix

Optional "The Works" ingredients:
cheap (or not cheap) whiskey- I use Rebel Yell
rose petal tincture (or you could try rosewater)**
tulsi basil tincture (Susie grew and made mine- mmmmm)***

Make the hot chocolate, stirring the whole time so it doesn't boil over or any other thing bad. When it is good and hot and the chocolate is all stirred in, ladle some into a special cup, only filling about half way. Add a generous splash of whiskey and a dropperful each of rose and tulsi tincture. Fill the cup the rest of the way up with more hot chocolate. Serve or drink with love.


Notes:
* For information on my first favorite month, click here or here
** Rose petals nourish the yin, and are a lovely Valentines tonic.
***Tulsi basil is warming.